Should States Recognize Same Sex Marriage?
By: Ansley (the Parson's thirteen-year-old granddaughter)
By definition love is a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person. Love is a concept that everyone knows about. How would you feel if all of a sudden your right to love was taken away? Empty? Alone? This is how approximately 8.8 million people feel all the time. Gay marriage is a touchy subject to discuss because it deals with religion as well as personal values. Although in American society people as a whole are not in favor of gay marriage, I strongly believe in the right to marry the same sex. I can understand why people would be against same-sex marriage, but do they understand why I would be for it?
Let’s take religion to start off with. Someone once anonymously stated on an online article, “I always thought the freedom of religion implied to the right from religion as well.” If this were to be true, is it right for the country to take away someone’s right to love based strictly on their beliefs? What if someone is a different religion other than Christian and doesn’t go by the Bible? How does being atheist fit into all of this? All of these are significant points to consider. What about the fact that state and religion are supposed to stay separate? If state and religion were actually separate, I bet more than six states would approve of gay marriage.
Morals also play a part of this ongoing argument. The way you were brought up affects your view on this. Your religion, how your parents were raised, and the type of household structure you were brought up in can affect your opinion on this issue. I was raised to accept everyone for who are. If they had disabilities, you accept them and learn to live a lifestyle that accommodates their needs. How is gay marriage any different? The way you feel about other people is just a part of who you are, just like disabilities. If someone wouldn’t look down on another person with a handicap, why would they look down on someone who is in love with the same sex?
Naturally people are going to disagree with my point of view. But if I were to ask someone who has a different viewpoint than me why gay marriage shouldn’t be legalized, what would their argument be? Does not legalizing gay marriage come down to feeling uncomfortable? Is it something people aren’t used to and therefore it is presented as wrong? But when you think about it, isn’t that how everything new works?
I believe that same-sex marriage should be made legal everywhere because it is simply just love. When you think about it, who is really hurting? How is it going to affect you in a negative way? Same-sex marriage, whether between men or women, is just a form of love. Maybe it is different from what you are used to, but when it comes down to it, it is all just the same thing. It’s just a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person.
Well said Ansley! Thank you.
Posted by: Timothy Good | February 16, 2011 at 06:55 AM
Brava, Ansley!
Posted by: net | February 16, 2011 at 09:03 AM
Well done Ashley. And remember that not all Christians believe in banning gay marriage so it isn't just imposing Christian beliefs upon non-Christians.
Posted by: Sunbob | February 16, 2011 at 10:44 AM
very well said ... keep saying it, Ansley.
Posted by: revssathome@aol.com | February 16, 2011 at 01:35 PM
Well said, Ansley.
Posted by: Songbird | February 16, 2011 at 06:57 PM
You have made me VERY proud!!!!!
Posted by: Rev. Paul M. Turner | February 16, 2011 at 09:29 PM
And QP should be very proud, too. What intelligence and insight for a young lady.
Posted by: Betsey | February 17, 2011 at 08:42 AM
Wish you would meet Jesus first and hear what HE says...
Posted by: cc | February 21, 2011 at 05:19 AM